Why You Don't Know What To Do - [From Gary Vee]

Published: Mon, 10/30/17

“You Are Not Lost In Life - You Are Just Early In The Process.” - Gary Vaynerchuk
 

I just saw this video from Gary Vaynerchuk and it hit me straight in the gut.


You can click on the image to see it.

The answer to “I feel overwhelmed & I don’t know what to do” from a young guy (LIKE ME) spoke directly to me.


Gary’s Answer: You gotta try stuff. The biggest reason you don’t know what you wanna do is because you haven’t tasted enough things & the biggest reason you are not tasting enough things is you are worried about finding it too fast”


We are all guilty of this and I certainly am fighting with this fear of what if I fail & what should I do?


The key is to take shots, be PATIENT, learn and move forward.


Since high school, I have always wanted to be an athlete & teach fitness to others & I have to some extent done that. That’s why I started my blog, YouTube channel & became a personal trainer.


It’s scary to put this info out there since I know I am always judged but my gut is telling me to do it.


When it comes to my own fitness goals & workouts I have so many options in front of me.


I have tried:

  • Powerlifting
  • Strongman
  • Learning Advanced Calisthenics Skills
  • Parkour
  • Going for high reps on bodyweight exercises (like 20 pull ups)

These different training styles & modalities that I have tried and have shaped the way I train but


I FEEL CAGED & TRAPPED

I wanna get stronger, build muscle, get ripped, learn how to do a handstand on gymnastic rings & deadlift 600 pounds.


Like all of you, I wanna do it all but I have to pick a discipline & get better at it instead of trying to be a jack of all trades & a master of none.


My gut is currently telling me to be a better calisthenics athlete: master the basics & learn the muscle up, handstand, lever & pistol.


Training for these skills is not as easy as do 4 sets of 12 reps. You gotta obsess, be patient & practice the skill daily.


Most importantly you have to let go of your mental fear & overcoming the biggest obstacle in your life: YOURSELF


You are the one limiting yourself from not being able to get these skills done.


  • Yes we need to learn progressions to these exercises
  • Yes we need to get stronger in certain positions
  • Yes we need to learn to breathe when creating tension while on a handstand


All these attributes are necessary to build up your physical strength, balance & control.


But the ultimate battle is to free yourself from fear.


  • To stop worrying about being scared & failing from a handstand.
  • To stop thinking you can’t do a hard exercise like a muscle up or handstand when you haven’t even physically tried it.
  • To stop caging your mind into thinking that you are weak, skinny, fat, heavy, tired, genetically ungifted or [insert other lame excuse you’ve told yourself]


Try a new exercise without much thought & let the fear move to the side.


Don’t be afraid of failure. Be afraid of not knowing whether you can or can’t.


To end this just TRY & gather learning experiences.


Watch Gary’s video & remember that anything you wanna achieve will happen as long as you keep trying and are patient.


That “overwhelmed + lost feeling” of not knowing what to do will little by little start to get clearer & you’ll have greater direction on what you want to do vs just “thinking of what if”

 
Attack Life Your Goals & Your Fears!
 
 
P.S. I am huge on personal development & that's why I send messages like these that talk more about mindset to help you overcome obstacles when you workout. I hope you find them helpful :)

P.S.S. Thank you so much to all of you who replied to my email last time. It gave me a lot more clarity in knowing what you want to learn from me. Muscle up tips coming soon!